Well, I’m slagging. Despite my big commitment to try and exercise more and eat better, I have returned to my bad habits, enjoying red wine with my dinners and choosing to work or rest rather than exercise.
I did go, finally, to a yoga class last week, but I am afraid that I have been spoiled by past teachers who ran their classes as if each pose was sacred and where the practitioners were silent and intent. In a recent class at the local YWCA there was very entertaining frivolity and chatter, but little of the stillness and concentration which I find so alluring about the practice. So, I will continue my search for a yoga teacher. In the meantime, just writing this post reminds me to recommit to my intention to make this a month of mental, physical and spiritual movement forward.
It shouldn’t have to be hard. I even had the weight machine in the basement repaired two weeks ago. You’d think that I would lift. It sits in the basement, silently creating guilt. I think the spiritual lesson here is that the guilt has got to go. It serves no one. Instead I’m going to take a cue from basketball players who– research shows–shoot better if they practice visualizing themselves making baskets. I’m going to visualize myself lifting weights. Until I actually make it down the basement steps I’ll at least be buff in my imagination. And wouldn’t it be funny if that was the key!

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July 23, 2008 at 9:30 am
gotit2
Can we back up and I have to ask, how do you start everyday? Like a car ride in the country, do you start your day with yogurt (Dannon light & fit- only because it has the least amout of sugar compared to the others), fruit, and fiber or do you put “nothing” OR just any junk/ sugars/ carbs etc in your gas tank? More to come but house work is calling.
There is more to losing weight then weight exercise training (irritating your aging joints) and mind willing wishing.
The vacum calls!! vrrmmm
August 3, 2008 at 2:07 pm
Cathy Sepulveda
Give yourself a break. The guilt is what is keeping you from doing what you know is right. Stop giving your guilt power! Exercise or don’t but don’t let that voice in your head that makes you nuts speak. Exercise because it will make you feel good. Not because you know you should. Read “A New Earth” by Eckhart Tolle.
You enjoy the quiet traditional Yoga classes have given you. You are seeking that happiness that comes from a quiet mind. Keep trying it will come.